Amen to that. That is what this tribe is all about. Thanks for sharing your story here at Gothaholics Anonymous. Now you must join us by burning all your black clothes(j/k). But seriously, that is what it is about. It is ok if you still listen to some of the music, but don’t let me catch you shadowdancing to Souxie behind closed doors by yourself!! Then you are a closet goth (totally joking, btw). You know, there are very few people you can joke with about silly ex goth things that will also find them funny. Normal people probably wouldn't get it, and people who are still into it would probably get offended (unless they are really cool and can laugh at themselves).